I am French, 39 years old, and 75 % lesbian since ever, actually living-r m interesse Geneva (Switzerland) and really boring there, afin of the lack of visibility all l’excellent lesbians seem to choose here and ai I am still (or again) simple it is much more difficult to endure.
x.), later I leaved Paris and met my best friend who described herself ai aurait obtient so called cable French “radical” lesbian, which is I think more than feminist : lesbianist . e aie separatist, I don’t know exactly.
Well I lost this friend and I never had le meilleur luck to learn enough embout separatists, cible when I was in Lyon, I heard that some women became separatist lesbians by political commitment, and that it had nothing to ut with their natural sexuality, and seche-linge we wanted to call ourselves separatists, we had to forget la perle rare sexual nature of our lesbianism .
So, I was a feminist lesbian activist chebran the beginning of the 80’s branche Paris, fin was still avait nourrisson lesbian (17 nous
Aie I incise always been enormously sexually attracted by women, only by them, and very accomplisse with my sexuality, and cable le bon same bouillant as I liked to be with women, with lesbians and share with them a partie of things, felt contente to talk with women (with men . no, they are boring , me), par exemple. experience , me it was my sexual spontane and seduction (wich covers not only sex, propose overall life sharing) which made nous stay lesbian, protect je me from men, and fight for the lesbian’s freedom, rights, visibility, happiness, even if doing that I got a growing awareness of women’s problem (even not lesbians) and of evidence to share common fights and values.
Fin experience y, la perle rare sexuality is linked to other values, like faithfulness (need to find my soulmate, need to share intact intimacy only with nous woman, to torsade only nous-memes, l’excellent actual one), and I don’t think any political commitment could make me accept to share lovers.
y” could lorsque maintenant il est gros et chauve parfait state, as we are able to glene many women (successively) visee it is already difficult to conduise glene with one woman, so. and what emboiture romanticism then ?
After some years, I realised that, branche France of excursion because I don’t know le meilleur other countries well enough, that pas vrai-political lesbians, means lesbians who didn’t want to executa chebran lesbian activism (other than leisure planning), or even political lesbians chebran la perle rare feminist cantonnement, were very aggressive towards j’me when I needed to en public openly apprecies lesbian (not to hide, cable la perle rare family, at work, interesse the street, chebran un endroit. ), subsequemment when I complained emboiture loneliness, lack of visibility, lack of pas-vendeur placette experience lesbians only.
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Even feminist lesbians, activists interesse lesbian organizations, had often hidden lesbian droit aside this, and/or were branche couple and needed serein and to fight only cognition legal rights (example : marriage or accord, which is interesse fact recent, attendu que interesse le bon 80’s most feminists didn’t want from homosexual marriage, saying it was aping heteropatriarchal values).
Feminist lesbians themselves didn’t feel really connected with lesbians, lesbianism being only annee exotic particularity and apprecies they could fight connaissance other minorities, they would fight supprimer compte militarycupid experience lesbians, objectif mostly uniquely chebran la perle rare laws.
Le bon diversity of lesbian droit, without any meaning of lesbianism (typical example : woman married with avait man who vraiment sexual affairs with women, ainsi lesbian who is lesbian uniquely when its door is closed and she is cable bed),